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Set the standard for parenting in your home

Children are usually pretty flexible, so you have to remember that when you are trying to set the parenting plan after your divorce. But just because they are flexible doesn't mean that they won't have problems adjusting to the divorce. Your job as their parent is to make sure that they have the support and tools to live their best life now.

3 tips for coming up with a suitable parenting plan for your kids

The process of determining what type of child custody arrangement will work for your children can be complicated. There are several things that you can do that might help to facilitate a respectful and productive negotiation process for all matters related to the children.

Provide your children with support in school during your divorce

Telling your children that their parents are divorcing isn't going to be easy. You have to ensure that you are explaining it in a way that they can understand. But the work that you have to do doesn't end there. You also have to figure out how to help the children thrive after the separation.

Spending time with both parents is important for children

One of the hardest things for parents to do is accept the fact that their children will have to spend time with the other parent after a divorce. Both parents have probably gotten accustomed to having the kids around all the time. While they might feel happy that they do get a little time alone, it can still be a challenge.

Know how you will handle child care arrangements on school breaks

Child custody can be a challenge during the school holidays. You have to figure out when you are going to have the children so you know when you'll need to plan for child care. While many people automatically think of the long breaks, such as summer and winter holiday breaks, the short ones and even half days are just as challenging. We know that you might not feel prepared, but it is an important consideration, especially if your children are younger.

Watch for signs of children playing one parent against the other

Children sometimes view a divorce as a way to manipulate parents into giving them their own way. The issue here is that they might claim that one parent already approved an activity or that they get to do specific things at the other parent's house. By making these claims, they are hoping that they will get to do what they want.

Passive-aggressive co-parents can make life miserable

Having to work with your ex on child custody matters isn't easy for most people. When you have to deal with one who is passive-aggressive, you might find that life is a lot more difficult than when you can get along together. There are many things that you might be able to do to make it a little easier to deal with your ex.

Thinking your way is the only way might harm custody negotiations

Child custody matters are often very contentious. Parents might think that their way is the only way that the child can thrive, but they don't necessarily want to acknowledge that the other parent's ways might work. This can actually work against them when they are trying to work out solutions to issues for the child custody.

Virtual visitation can strengthen your parenting

When parents divorce, building a fair parenting plan and custody agreement is one of the most important aspects of the process, one which may affect the rights and privileges of both parents for years to come. As you consider all of your options, it is wise to carefully examine the benefits and drawbacks that virtual visitation can offer.

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