Coercive control is a pattern of behavior used to dominate or manipulate another person in an intimate relationship. It often includes intimidation, isolation, and threats, making it difficult for the other person to make independent choices.
Unlike physical abuse, coercive control operates through psychological and emotional tactics, leaving no visible scars but causing lasting harm.
Signs of coercive control
Coercive control can take many forms, making it hard to recognize. Common signs include:
- Restricting access to money or financial resources
- Monitoring communication with friends and family
- Threatening harm to loved ones or pets
- Controlling daily activities, such as what to wear or eat
- Repeatedly putting someone down to lower their self-esteem
- Using intimidation or humiliation to maintain power
While these behaviors may not seem like traditional abuse, they create an environment of fear and dependence.
Legal protections in Massachusetts
Massachusetts law recognizes coercive control as a serious issue in domestic relationships. Under Chapter 209A of the Massachusetts General Laws, individuals can seek restraining orders based on a pattern of controlling behavior. Courts consider coercive control when determining custody arrangements, issuing protective orders, and handling domestic abuse cases. Even without physical violence, these behaviors may lead to legal consequences.
For those facing accusations, it is important to understand that intent and context matter. Courts review evidence carefully to ensure that actions were not misinterpreted or taken out of context. Having a strong defense can help individuals avoid unfair penalties.
Protecting your rights
If you believe you are experiencing coercive control, documenting incidents and seeking support can be important first steps. For those accused of coercive control, gathering evidence to show the true nature of the relationship may be necessary. Legal representation ensures that both parties have their rights protected and receive fair treatment in court.
Understanding domestic violence in the form of coercive control helps individuals recognize unhealthy dynamics and take appropriate legal action when needed.